The realization of being a boss for 40 years! Qin Silin: A truly despicable life is the love of earning money and losing family

Editorial: How can you be happy in life? Qin Silin, the executive of Daqian Classics, has been operating for more than 40 years and has seen all kinds of people with money, people who are short of money, and people who suffer for money. The story of being a guest teaches him the principles of life: the real wealth in life is something that money cannot be bought.

The Great Qiandian Premium Executive Qin Silin's hand in the palace, there are many flash-like treasures. The small flower-shaped diamond ring was once a witness of love; the old-school iron watch contained the father's feelings for the child; the crystal clear glass knife came from the treasure before a big boss ran away. The stone is cut like a mirror, reflecting the love, hatred and anger of human nature.

Qin Silin, 62 years old, may be the most famous boss in Taiwan. At the age of 17, his father's business failed and he learned to be a disciple. Starting from scratch, we will create our own world. In recent years, it has been on TV programs more often to determine the authenticity of treasures for the public. For more than 40 years, he witnessed the economic boom in Taiwan and also saw the various circumstances of life from those who were running for money.

Dict is a business with a long history. As the times evolved, Taiwanese people's lives became richer and richer, and they were always standing firm. Among Qin Silin's customers, many people have suffered from money throughout their lives, running from age to age.

Why can’t the customer solve his life problems when he borrowed money? Qin Silin showed a meaningful smile, "The shortage is a matter of money."

No matter how much money you have in your life, it will not be able to fill the gap in people's hearts

The Daqiandian Boutique Jilin store near Xingtian Palace in Taipei is Qin Silin's "start the family". Most of the customers are ordinary people who have been to the market for many years. The old customer had something to do at home and always ran to his store. "Someone has been in a 40-year-old cypress, and the girl has become Asan." He said with emotion.

For concern, Qin Silin would also ask these reasons for the shortage of regular customers, and the answers they got were nothing more than: "being cheated by relatives", "the business failure of his partner and child." When I get older, the reason becomes: "Shouzi has an accident and needs money." Even if others suffer, it is still difficult for the parties to see through it. "They look like good men and believers, and come to me regularly every month to send money." Qin Silin said half-jokingly.

Qin Silin observed that most people who are short of money in their lives have gaps in their hearts - to enforce certain desires. Some people are in charge and are interested in making more money; some people are unwilling to accept that their career is about to collapse, but they still want to borrow money to make another profit. Some people also fall in love and are blinded by love. He once met an engineer who had a good income and wanted to be a famous watch. It was just because his girlfriend, who was in a hot mood, borrowed 7 million or 8 million from him on the grounds that her family had an accident.

Among all those who are accused of being a parent, the one who is most confused is the one who is a parent. Qin Silin has seen many rich second-generations, Huo Duo’s wealth, and he doesn’t know how to cherish Zixia, and even goes on a wrong path because of his money. He once met a young man who brought a female guest to the store with a expensive female guest. I only learned later that the young father was the boss of the trade industry. He usually liked to buy sports cars to show off his wealth, and often opened parties and spent a lot of money to buy gifts to pursue girls. I waited until I couldn't afford it, but I asked my heart-soft mother for help.

Such a stupid father and a fool are not uncommon in his spare time. Many old customers often say to Qin Silin, "I'm not lucky." But if they let go of their children, the customer insisted on "No!" The person involved was not willing to be sober, so of course outsiders had no choice.

How to suck the rebirth that has been suffering from money? Qin Silin compared it to the metaphor that money is like commodity inventory and needs to be managed separately. There are many cabinets in his heart who wrote the names of friends on his head. For example, there are 20,000 draws at the head, and the daughter draws at 2 million draws. He would borrow as much as possible for the money within the amount, and it would be fine, but it would be gone after it was borrowed. Even if you are like a father and a daughter, you should not have any money or money.

If you like, you don't have to have low desires to be happy

In the 40 years of establishment, Qin Silin has been using all kinds of items. In the early era when there was a lack of biological resources in the people, quilts and clothes could be exchanged. Home appliances such as cameras and TVs were also common collateral. After the country, although these items have not changed their uses, the market price has long been no longer as usual.

Many people like to ask Qin Silin with their collections, "How much is this worth? Did I spend money wrong?" Seeing that too many people were cheated for investment, he suggested that whether something is worth buying is worth buying, the value he considered is far more important than the price determined by the market.

He said that in recent years, the price of tea puffs has been hyped, and Chen Nian tea puffs can be called for tens of thousands of yuan. However, the main reason for the ancients to make tea puffs was that the traffic was inconvenient in the past, and the tea leaves were dried and pressed, so that the fragrance would not change easily. Today, tea making technology has improved, and you can drink fresh and good tea anywhere at any time. Why spend a lot of money to suck tea buns?

He emphasized that if you hold an item, being happy is the most important thing. I can buy it very well, just don’t buy it and enjoy it. He is passionate about water activities and has also bought a famous battle sailing ship with his friends from the team. I didn't expect that the seemingly popular warships are actually not easy to maintain. In winter, the boat will be covered in long hair, and in summer, the hull will be damaged by the sun. After a few years of hard work, he proposed to sell the boat, and everyone felt relieved.

"You can own about one in a thousand things in the world, and most of the things you don't have," said Qin Silin. When there were top-notch watches, diamonds, and jewelry, he wore an ordinary shirt and had no heads on him. The most valuable head on the whole body is the Wanbaolong steel sheet given by my daughter.

Yizi is in harmony with money, and he knows well that people must live in peace with their own desires. "With low desires, more happiness. If you have more desires, you will always live under pressure." Qin Silin said. The upgrade of desire often only brings troubles to the next level: I want a supercar and I want a second one, and I have a limited edition leather bag and I also need a special model of …… "As long as people have food and clothes to wear, what else do they need?" he asked.

Introspection after midlife crisis: Without the love of family, it is the most beloved person

Taking money lightly is the self-reflection after Qin Silin's businessman for many years. When he was young, he was very worried and wanted to make money and turn it over. I had 10 years, and when I was 24 hours a day, the iron door finally didn't have a day off. He works during the day, works at night, and even sleeps. The speed of wealth accumulation is getting faster and faster. After middle age, he not only has wealth but also has luxury goods such as famous cars and luxury houses.

However, money and happiness cannot be used to draw the best number. At the age of 55, he suddenly felt empty. After trying hard for most of his life, he can eat delicious food easily, ride a car, and live in a spacious house without any sense of excitement. He asked himself, "Do you feel more happy if I have money? No."

"The money I lost will never be bought back." Qin Silin said. After working in a business for a long time, my mind will not be free from becoming utilitarian and I will be polite to measure the value of things with money. For example, a daughter's birthday and important remuneration period, in the past he would choose the latter without hesitation. Anyway, "You can spend your birthday tomorrow, what should you plan to do?" Just like this, one day will be delayed, and when he finally has time, his family will have long lost their joy.

However, love is different from money, and it must be accumulated bit by bit in the long year of the year, without the shortcut to getting rich overnight. Qin Silin said with emotion that he finally had time in recent years and wanted to chat with his children, but often didn't know how to open his mouth. He once asked the child, "Why do you ignore me? Why don't you talk to me?" The child only replied, "Have you talked to us before?"

He said bluntly, "If you don't have the love of your family, you are the most beloved." At the age of fifty years old, he realized that honor and fame are all smokes, and only affection is the wealth you can keep in this life. He began to work hard to rehabilitate his relationship with the three children. Even if the regrets of the past are no longer replenished, he still hopes to leave as much warmth in the child's heart as possible.

The greatest wealth in this life is the beauty that my wife thanked God for the beauty that we gave him

We asked Qin Silin, what is the wealth he cherishes most now? "My wife." He answered without hesitation.

Qin Silin and his wife have been married for 37 years, and after marriage, they have lived with their father for 30 years. Dad Qin is a very old man and has a lot of opinions about his daughter-in-law. The wife not only needs to provide some of her parents-in-law’s daily life, but she cannot serve the table with the male host to eat. Qin Silin also admitted that he had a bad temper when he was young and often had sex with flowers and flowers outside, which actually caused his wife to suffer a lot of grievances.

However, over the years, the wife has never complained about her parents-in-law. Qin Silin recalled that no matter how hard his wife worked, she always asked her parents to take care of her parents until the old man passed away. In his later years, Dad Qin and Mother Qin were very grateful for their filial piety. "Dad left, and I realized that my wife was a very good person, and I am very grateful."

In the past few years, he began to give gifts to his wife. In the past, he never remembered his wife's birthday or wedding anniversary. It was often his father-in-law who reminded him, "Today's my daughter's birthday." He was surprised that he had not made any preparations. Now, he will mark his calendar in advance and ask the secretary to buy the flowers his wife likes in advance. Even though his wife never opens her mouth, he will take the initiative to pay attention to the beautiful diamonds and gems and give them to his partner as gifts.

"Now at the beginning, I want to be my wife's "pet". Not only do I listen to her, but also do things that make her happy, take her away, and play around." Qin Silin said emotionally that his wife's dedication and love to him was the biggest debt he owed in his life. But I have a long life, I just hope to try my best to stay with my wife until I am old. The couple is together, without any regrets.

As a Buddhist, he always put his hands together. This posture is not a prayer, but a thank you. Over the years, he has seen all kinds of customers, with money or shortages, and everyone is wandering on the road of life. In fact, no matter how much money you spend, you can't buy a truly bright treasure in your life. The beauty that you have is fortunate to have is not a human creation, but a blessing from God. Therefore, "life can only be grateful, and thankful again and again," he said.

Original text: The physical enlightenment of being a boss for 40 years! Qin Silin: A truly despicable life is to make money and lose family love