Ruan Dutian’s mother was only 60 years old when she divorced! The son s view: "My mother is already over 60 years old, why don t she be herself happy?"

Because Ruan Du Tian’s mother was in the world, it was hard to regret. Ruan Du Tian had previously expressed emotion, "Mom can finally enjoy happiness, but she is 70 years old." She has always been thinking about her family throughout her life, and she only pursues her own happiness in her later years.

Ruan Dongtian is a famous filial son in the entertainment industry. He has a very good relationship with his grandmother, his mother who grew up, his mother who raised his family, and his younger brother who is 12 years younger. For Ruan Tianlai, happiness of parents is more important than anything else! That is because of this, when Ruan Tian’s mother divorced at the age of 60, what he cared most was: Is her mother happy?

Ruan Tiantian Video asked his mother: "Have you been happy recently?" Mother Ruan said: "I'll tell you, I'm so happy and single!"

Many people think that divorce is equivalent to pain, disaster, failure... But more people love and kill each other in marriage, and suffer patience. As Ruan Tian said, "My mother is already over 60 years old, why don't she be herself happy?" Mother Ruan actually walked very far ahead. Divorce for mature people has become a new trend for women to wake up.

20 years after marriage, the peak of divorce

According to the Ministry of Interior, the first peak of divorce for Taiwanese people fell in the five years of marriage, and the second peak was the 20 years of marriage. After 20 years of marriage, if you have children, you are likely to be adults. Many women will choose to decide to divorce at this time, and they also need to have more silver-haired husbands, and they will also be able to recover from single body. The couple has spent decades in their marriage. They are "mature divorced" and know better than young people the path they want to take and what life they want to live next.

The self-consciousness and desire for exploration in mature women

More and more women are brave enough to pursue self-reality (especially after children grow up). Women are more independent and independent in economic terms than before, and no longer need to rely on men as the economic pillar of their homes. When I reach middle age, I begin to understand what I want? Don't want anything?

Removed the social rules of a good wife, a good mother, and a good daughter-in-law. Mature women are not like young people who care too much about other people's eyes or are blocked by social circles. Mature women who propose divorce begin to pursue a lifestyle of "loyalty to their own feelings". The unsatisfaction and strong dependence that they long for marriage relationships, such as being loved, understood, affirmed, and admired, etc., are dissatisfied with their spouse, and if they cannot revolve, they will also fight for the happiness they will be!

Is divorced by mature people a failure?

Of course, everyone wants to get married and grow old with their partner, form a family, and be happy forever. Women who are young and just entering marriage should not forget that in addition to their multiple roles, they have an identity, which is the most important "self". If they can be economically independent and enjoy the achievements and confidence brought by their work, or they are in charge of their family, have their own expertise and diligence, and observe their own physical and mental state at any time. Even if they are not divorced from a mature age, they can be a vibrant and vital force in the era.

The only one who can save himself is always the only oneself, not a companion. The way we face the problem of dealing with fear is to first directly admit our fear, not avoid or guard against it, and face it bravely. The younger you are, the better you can understand this ability, no matter how the marriage changes, it may be no longer that important and terrible.